A very spiritual woman I know shared the following with me: she said, 'I used to have unfortunate beliefs about myself and I received back from external influences unfortunate results. When I decided to take control and raise my resonance, to be the change I wanted to become, to allow plenty and love come flow through me, no ifs ands or buts all fell into place. I am now living a life of relaxation with a gorgeous husband and I can draw what I want into my universe at will.'
What does it take to be a love magnet, or a money magnet, or a condition magnet?
It takes a shift in perception and really, that's all it takes.
We choose what to focus on. We choose to be no ifs ands or buts bummed out when it rains, or we choose to appreciate the downpour as a great opening to take care of indoor activities, or even better, to leave the umbrella at home and go for a walk. One person's inconvenience is another's puddle splashing fun.
When we focus on good, good comes to us. When we focus on grief, we grieve. This is not to say there's no place for grief in life, it's just to say, we need to be mindful that we're not suffering over our own suffering. We do not need to be grief magnets.
I overheard a girl in a cafe the other day telling her friend, 'I'm a freak magnet. I can't leave my apartment without running into someone whether clinically insane or whacked out on drugs or fanatical about some weirdness who wants to have allinclusive interaction with me.'
The friend responded, 'That's so strange. You live in a no ifs ands or buts nice place, in a no ifs ands or buts nice neighborhood. You wouldn't think there'd be that many weirdos around.'
'They're in any place I am. It's like they're out there waiting for me to leave my house just so they can shout in my face or try to get me to join their cult.'
I opinion to myself how awful it was for this girl to have this confidence about herself, that no matter where she goes, no matter what she's doing, she's going to draw the lowest tasteless denominator to her.
This is no ifs ands or buts how attraction works. What you think about yourself, you are. What you believe about the world, is your reality. What you speak, is your truth.
I approximately wanted to say to her, 'You know, you could just as no ifs ands or buts not be a 'freak magnet' by naturally telling yourself that you're other kind of magnet.' Then I realized that, sadly, my intrusion would only supplementary confirm her self-diagnosis and she'd misinterpret my advice as more freakery, as in, 'Yeah, this guy came up to me in the caf and told me to be other kind of magnet. He looked pretty normal, but what a freak!'
So anyone your beliefs are about the world, I implore you, take this freak's advice and adjust it to bring you all that you ever wanted and not the lowest tasteless denominator.
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